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Category: Perfectionism

Your Journey to a Fulfilling Life

Perfectionism

Perfectionism

  • Perfectionists try so hard to fit in and do right by everyone because we feel responsible for being the black sheep. Not because we are a disgrace, but because we are misunderstood.

    Are Perfectionists Black Sheep In Disguise?

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  • Have you ever wondered why perfectionists hate pets? The stench, the mess, the extra planning, or is the taking care of and lack of control?

    Why do many perfectionists hate pets?

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  • If these words give you a negative reaction, then you might be a perfectionist and you may be suffering from anxiety and depression.

    Perfectionist 4-letter words that are uncomfortable

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  • Reality is that multitasking is our mind switching from one task to the next ever so quickly that you believe it is occurring simultaneously, but it’s not.

    Multitasking is a lie, sorry it is.

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  • Kintsugi is a Japanese method of repairing porcelain pottery with gold it highlights the cracks instead of disguising them.

    Welcome to the Kintsugi show!

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  • Do you have a love-hate relationship with your to-do list? During my perfectionism pre-recovery, I hailed the “To-Do List” as my all-knowing guidance.

    Your TO-DO List

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  • As a “recovering perfectionist” my aim in life is to make everything nice for everyone, but by fixing their problems, I rob them of life skills.

    Learn the Recovering Perfectionist Skills

    Recovering Perfectionist As a “recovering perfectionist” my aim in life [...]

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  • sorry not sorry

    Baby, I’m sorry … I’m not sorry!

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  • Not all perfectionists are doomed for romance fails, but this main type of perfectionist has it the worst.

    Beware of Dating a Perfectionist

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  • Take the quiz to find out if you're more likely to have perfectionism because you have these personality traits.

    Perfectionism and Personality Traits

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  • As a perfectionist, you may wonder about the specifics of it all, because not all perfectionists are created equal.

    What kind of a perfectionist am I anyway?

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  • Did you know that some personality traits lend themselves more easily to perfectionism than others? Do you have these traits?

    Do you have what it takes to be a perfectionist?

    So, do you have what it takes to be a [...]

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  • How do you talk to your children about the school shooting in Texas when you don’t have a clear solution yourself? 

    Peacemaker or Pacemaker?

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  • At the beginning of my perfectionism awareness journey, someone said to me, “You lack gratitude.” I was shocked.

    Gratitude As A Perfectionist

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  • Perfectionism is a mask we wear to hide the parts of us we are ashamed of showing to the outside world, and sometimes, even to ourselves.

    The Mask Of Perfectionism

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  • Wasting time can take a toll on us perfectionists and sometimes we instill that fear on our children. But what if we were to focus on the here and now?

    Wasted Time: A Perfectionist’s Worst Fear

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  • These eleven behaviors are complete wastes of your time, especially if you’re a perfectionist in search of the ultimate life.

    Stop Wasting Time With These 11 Behaviors

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  • When a perfectionist uses research to prove a point and justify their lifestyle, it circumnavigates the notion that what they feel and want is valid.

    Research Is The Perfectionist’s Scapegoat

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  • Perfectionism is an emotional development which begins at an early age that has been stunted by the coping skills of past generations.

    Emotional Immaturity Leads To Perfectionism in Children

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  • As a perfectionist, the fear isn’t so much in the mistake, it lies in fearing not being loved or accepted anymore by the important people in their life. 

    The Fear Of Making A Mistake As A Perfectionist

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  • Oftentimes, the other parent feels like they always fall short of the perfectionist’s expectations and everything they do is wrong.

    Different Doesn’t Always Mean Wrong

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  • You know the kind of day when you’re extra reactive, you feel like you are losing it every minute and everything is incredibly overwhelming?

    Losing it!

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  • You think your intentions are pure but are you using them as an excuse to do exactly what you want regardless of the impact?

    Are your intentions good?

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  • Perfectionism is narcissism. Perfectionists tend to feel like their tendencies are to improve the lives of everyone in their life.

    Perfectionism is Narcissism 

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  • Expectations creep up on you when you are surprised, shocked, or angered by the present moment. Expectations are just a fantasy concocted by your mind.

    Expectations are Sneaky and Sinister

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  • Perfectionists are detail-oriented and super planners and along with the desire for predictability comes the pressure to make it happen.

    Perfectionism is an idealized form of predictability

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